As a Muslim, what is your biggest interpersonal problem?

2. I'm a Strict Muslim, and so I have no sympathy for people who break the rules of Islam and get themselves in trouble.

What to wear to Quasar!?

Hey, I'm 14 and I need an outfit to wear to quasar which is a kinda human laser game :L Its really hot at the moment but I don't like my legs at all so don't want to wear shorts on their own but don't own a pair of jeans either as they don't fit me right :/ any suggestions? Links would be very helpful<3

Tips for First day of highschool? :(?

I'm starting highschool this year, and i'm superrrr nervous.. I have a group of friends that I always talk to. And it's a big school, so i doubt i'll see them much. So it's obvious that I need to meet some new people. Any tips on how to be more outgoing? I'm really shy at first. :/ Also, outfit or hair ideas for first day? Thanks guys. :)

Why doesn't the world show any mercy on outcasts like me?

Now look outcasts like me we are jackasses.We Have really annoying,gross,crude,strange habits,We have a habit of solving conflicts through threats and violence,and when you take us to a theme park when we're children we don't know that we're supposed to ride the rides.Needless to say we suffer severe emotional abuse because of it.Look guys like me we deserve mercy.We're just really stupid and immature.Do you think there could be special places for outcasts who just don't fit in.So that we can get an education and learn in peace without having to worry about getting tormented by cruel classmates who attend regular school.Look its nearly impossible for guys like me to control ourselves when we're angered or aroused because of our immaturity and life inexperience.Look its perfect With these establishments for dysfunctional outcasts the teachers would be required not to have any sex appeal thus no risk of sexual assault.and the establishments would be required to tutor any students who don't understand the work.These dysfunctional outcasts would be required to live there until they reach the age of 25,and that way they'll have enought life expierenece to kepp from doing stupid things.These establishments would be required to provide schooling preschool through high school and then provide college education so that they could get a college degree and they could even get a PH.D.Also while there they would be required to take anger management classes and conflict resolution classes so when they get out at age 25 they could handle any situations they may encounter in a mature non violent manner.These establishments would also be required to have Gyms for their P.E.Look please agree with me and mark this question as interesting.Think about itdydfunctional outcasts aka pathetic losers can finally have a break they could get an education without having to worry about getting tormented by cruel classmates,and not have to worry about getting aroused by the sexy female teachers and girls who go to the regular schoolsand then they wouldn't have to be worried about being provoked into commiting a crime that would get them expelled from school and poossibly even arrested.Another thing they wouldn't have to be worried about is there cruel classmates making up a story about them and causing them to get expelled fror it.Believe it or not some of the r egular schools can be extremely cruel the cruel classmates would make up a story about you and when you try to explain to the principal that you didn't do it he would just say "We're just gonna have to take their word for it"Because he doesn't like you nor does the school because you're a pathetic loser.Look its perfect With these establishments for the dysfunctional outcasts they could be separate frome the people who go to the regular schools who are so mean to them there,and because no ones going to be mean to them there at these special establishments for dysfunctional outcasts Guess what NO MORE SCHOOL VIOLENCE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!This is perfect think about it no more violence no more cruelty There would be nothing for these dysfunctional outcasts to be vengeful about.

Narcissists Vs Non-Narcissists, who will win on confidence, self-esteem, and on how they look?

The narcissists will always win, because they believe what they tell themselves and it's all about them. In reality, non-narcissists will most often win according to other people, because it's not all about them.

Help Please, i cant figure this one out?

He might have been nice when he didn't think of Kai as a threat but once he saw that he was poking, or what seems like harming to Anataio, he went into protective mode. This perhaps means that he really loves you and wants to protect you. You might wanna carefully reintroduce the two and if he seems uneasy then be a little more careful in the future. Hope I helped a little

I'm going to an under 21 neon party.. HELP ON WHAT TO WEAR?!?

Okay so I'm 15 but I love wearing sexy clothes (I'm not a hoe) I don't like showing too much but I like tight outfits. I want to wear maybe like a dress. Something not too expensive maybe under $60. I need help! I'm not so great with fashion. Pictures would be great! Thanks ^.^

What do you think this means?

He just wants you back. But if whatever he did was overtop, and you feel likeyou cant be with him anymore then just let him go. He is heartbroken, but he will have to move on soon

Based on this explanation, am I a narcissist?

My entire life is dedicated to improving myself, body and mind. For example, I run a double-marathon once a week, do at least 300 push-ups daily(not consecutively), 1500 sit-ups, I built my log cabin, I have read the Qu'ran, the Bhagavad Gita, parts of the Torah, and the Bible, I am well-versed in 4 types of martial arts, I don't drink, I don't smoke, and I never have sex unless it's for procreation. I could go on, but I think you get it. Based on everything I've just told you, am I a narcissist? And any other opinions on my lifestyle would be appreciated. Thanks.

What do you think this means?

His feelings are hurt because he wants you as a girlfriend and you are not into him. If you don't want him for a boyfriend I think you should just tell him that being friends is not going to work out and that you don't want to see him at all. That way he will get over you and move on. Now he just can't help acting like an idiot because he is all messed up about you. It would probably help him if you just said no calls, texting, no anything. Unless you are actually interested in him. I think you are kind of interested because why else would you care What he is reading. In that case just be his girlfriend and see what happens. Good Luck!

What's Wrong With Me? Please be Nice?

you look cute and have a unique style, don't worry about changing anything. Looking different is NOT the same as looking bad. MY only suggestion is getting your eyebrows waxed (arch) and line them lightly with powder. but you're gorgeous

What is chris brown wearing yeah 3x video?

I like the whole outfit and would like a run down of what he has on maybe even the same brand if possible. It would be nice for nights out.

Why is it tht people are so narcissist that they post pictures of themself on here and ask if they look good?

They are trolls who like to fish compliments from total strangers...but most of the times it doesn't go their way.

Why did my bed buddy throw random insults at me?

I have only recently started seeing this guy purely as a bed buddy. He said that I should not develop anything more for him and I told him that I want something totally uncomplicated. He is actually kind of a narcissist and egotistical but I was just having fun with him so I didn't care. We've seen each other 4 times and the last time he started throwing random insults at me...criticizing me and even making pokes at my intelligence..like just because I have a masters degree doesn't mean I am smart...or stupid things like my laptop is too old...i contradict myself too much. What is up with that? We are just bed buddies and he has no right to say things to me. we shouldn't even be talking for that matter. I don't understand this behavior. I was happy the way things were and now I have to stop seeing him which is really disappointing. I told him he was obnoxious and egotistical. Any ideas on why he would act this way and should I ask him why he behaved in such a manner.

How can I get my brother to LEAVE ME ALONE?

I hate going out in society, I hate being around people, I hate doing social activities a lot of times. I am sort of a narcissist mainly because I do not want to care for anyone's property or be responsible for anything that isn't mine. I like to stay inside because I avoid stress that way. I'm not scared of meeting people, but I do not find people very interesting to be around and within like a week the person I meet considers me a jerk because I don't really listen and my true bombastic ruthless and in-carnal insides start to show and people get freaked out by me. My brother always rubs my lifestyle in my face and calls me a hermit because I sit down in a chair all day and hibernate on my computer. He has admitted he was jealous of me before because of my stress free and worry free lifestyle but now I guess he is jealous again because he goes through **** at school trying to fit in. How can I get him to back off? I really don't like that kid but I'm forced to live with that little ****! Any advice?

If someone is a narcissist, will they ever change?

i just would like to know, if someone knows they have a serious problem, such as narcissism... under what circumstances might they change? if they are aware of how they feel ( deep down inside ) then surely they want to change that? or, are they just too scared to face their feelings

Im stuck between two women but dont want to hurt anyone!?

its no good saying you dont want to hurt anybody ..... but we all know some one is going to be the looser ... and get very hurt ... may i suggest you make your mind up who you want to be with as the person who gets hurt might just be you soz mate but ya asked and this has happens to so many people

How do I deal with a difficult father?

I love my Dad, but he is very easily provoked. He doesn't ever really show love. All he ever talks to me about is how I am wasting his money. He gets mad at the littlest things, and insinuates that its because I'm stupid, or incompetent or something. He is hard to talk to. I don't know what to do about this. He has always been like this.

Has Social Networking & "Reality" TV created a generation of self involved conceited narcissists?

I agree with you completely they show the ruthless and mean parts of a person's personality and the nice person that tries to be a peace maker or be friends with everyone is seen as a pushover or a wimp. I think that the way that people are raising their children now also has a lot to do with it, nobody wants their kid to be picked on or be a pushover so people go overboard the other way and make their kids into little bullies. This is how people always were we were just taught that it wasn't right to be mean to others. to consider other peoples feelings, and to do unto others as you would have done unto you. None of that seems to be in anyone's vocabulary anymore.

How to deal with teen gangs?

My city is full with fun groups gangs and etc.I can't go to the shopping mall with my friends I can't get a girl because of teen group.I remember last time i went to the shopping mall with my friends we were attacked by 25~30 teens.They had baseball bats,knifes and don't know what else.We didn't provoke or something else just passing by.Tell me good advice and tips.I cannot fight 30 people so don't recommend me maritial arts,kick box and etc.I can't carry a gun or knife because that's ilegal.Sorry for my bad english.Thanks!!

Did I have a paranormal experience?

I'm having a bit of a paranormal experience in my home the light and fan keeps turning on and off and it's really cold when I walk in sum spots in my house and r dog seems to stare at the wall sumtimes and barks

Ideas for a scene girls wardrobe?!?

You should probably google this because its hard to put in words sorry I couldn't help much. But all you have to do is put in scene girl outfits for the specific things you need.

What would you react if an abusive narcissist blame you and says to you :" shame on you, you are not a child?

I would say "Okay" but I wouldn't really have cared anyways. I just go along with hard headed people then shrug it off.

Me and my girlfriend are 16 but its becoming a nightmare with her parents.?

Ok, so my gf and I met through her brother. my old bestfriend, I asked him with upmost respect if I could date his sister. Me and this girl have everything in common and I mean EVERYTHING and that's why I went against my word that I wouldn't date his sister. Anyways he txted me back and said you can leave now or their will be consequences. He continually threatened me with physical affliction, that hed break me open and ruin my life mentally. He told his mom that I'm a horrible person and painted a bullsht picture.. Now can this girl stay.with me if she really wants to an disobey her parents? I mean im not provoking this she's doing this on her own. She disowned her brother because "hes not afraid to go to jail"so I'm clueless on this situation. Can she stay with me even if mama and papa say no.. I mean this isn't iraq where you have pre arranged marriages and companions.

What are some clothes guys can wear to have 'style'?

I've been just wearing billabong and hurley tee shirts and shorts but it's kinda getting old. Any outfits that have some style and aren't too expensive?

Help! How to create a cool Girl soldier outfit for fancy dress party?

Definitely get some kind of army set like the one below, small details matter when trying to look good.

What might have contributed to the outbreak and spread of hysteria over witchcraft in Salem, Mass. in 1692?

In today's world, what "anxieties" provoke "hysterical" reactions, and how should society respond?

What to wear on the first day of school as a freshman coming in during the semester?

girl becoming a freshmen this year and i'm joining in the middle of the semester so what should i wear my high school is in Washington state and transfering in October so fall/winter outfit for the 'new girl'

I have this reoccurring dream about a cave.?

I have this reoccurring dream about a cave. It's a giant cave, pleasant, and the entrance is in the closet to the back spare bedroom in my grandma's house. I love being in the cave, but I only have the dream when I'm about to experience a big change in my life. I've had this dream many times. Days before my husband attacked me. Days before my husband nearly strangled me and I left him. Days before I left my boyfriend. It confuses the hell out of me. I long to have this dream all the time but of course I cannot provoke it. What does it all mean? How do I get back to this cave?

How to dress like Rocky Blue from Shake It Up?

i love her style. can you guys put together some cheap outfits(provide a link/pic please) that are her style.

Can two people with a lot of baggage from their past be together?

I was recently chatting with a new acquaintance, My partner and I both got rather sketchy pasts. Lies, deceit, abuse, dramatic and traumatic changes and occurrences. Well this acquaintance said that no 2 people with that amount of baggage would ever last together. Is this true? We do have our UPS and Downs but that's normal for a relationship right?? My partner was severely abused as a child and we have fought on 3 occasions when it has become violent. he doesn't abuse me but lets just say we physically fight, and its often me that provokes the fight. IS this normal?? People say im crazy.... I love him and i know he loves me... and essentially we have everything we need., live enriched lives and love each other and have fun, but we do go through phases that would be appropriate on the jerry springer show!

Vera Bradley patterns?

I'm 13, and I'm most likely ordering a Vera Bradley mini hipster. it won't look dumb, or like an old granny bag right? What patterns look best? I'd want to be from the "on sale colors" area. I'm interested in totally turq. Also, it'd be great if it matched a lot of outfits.

I'm a beginner and I like the Encore E69CR outfit is that a good electric guitar to get for my first?

Will it be a good guitar for rock? If not what one would be; I'm looking to spend no more than �150.00

Why are narcissists successful, initially, at attracting women?

What is it that narcissists do that attracts women? How do they think, Behave around women, what do they say to women, and their attitudes and body language that is toxic at attracting women ? can you give some examples please.

Where does Lauren Conrad buy her clothes?

Where is she normally seen shopping at? I love her outfits and style. I know she has her own collection and wears pieces from her own line, I live in England though so I can't buy things from Kohls, anywhere else (UK) you can recommend?

Should i start a fight with a kid in my school?

Bad idea ! u don't put ur self in this kinda situation i know u want to help ur friends and every thing but this dud sounds like he has some serous problems in his life so he get's it out on other people i say u should just stay away from him and same for ur friends and that doesn't mean that ur a chicken or any thing that just mean that u r a good person and don't want any problems just like zac efron in 17again ;) no seriously don't do it !

Wife's going to Glee concert thursday. Outfit help!?

Probably not. My friends went and they didn't dress up they just wore t-shirts that said glee on them. As long as she doesn't go too far, who cares? it'll be cute and maybe catch the attention of her??

Can you help me punctuate this sentence?

Today, being Sunday, I woke up as routine would have it and readied myself for church. Not caring about modesty or what others thought, I picked an outfit which showed I was indeed female while at the same time hid my love handles.

Where to buy for as a butler? COSPLAY?

you can try http://www.yourcosplay.com/index.php?main_page=advanced_search_result&search_in_description=1&keyword=butler

Christians or others - Can a narcissist call himself a Christian?

The very best kind! Note the theme persisting in bible folks that man is special and has an immortal soul "made in the image and likeness of god." Then they arrogate dominion, ownership and control over the entire Gaeia, including its life forms and vegetations. All this from and FOR US, Homunculus Sapiens!

Are China's leaders trying to provoke a war?

Commies and fascists are polar opposites ... Learn before you speak .............The "Chinese communists" are very aggressive but so are we ........................................…

What wrong with my friend? (10points!) pleeaaassee!!!!?

we've known each other forever, our dads have been best friends since their childhood on and off also.....so my friend trys to brag A LOT... for example i took her on myfamily'ss vacation this weekend and whenever we were around the family she would brag at any time possible and when she would brag she would talk very loud so everyone could hear. She brags a lot about the stuff her cousins have, like for instance she will say "yeah we sold out horses, but were getting new ones." and another example is i took her atv'ing a few weeks ago and i let her drive on the trails while everyone was there and one of my moms boyfriends friends asked her if she atv's often because she was good and she replied with "no, i dirt bike." when she maybe dirt bikes once a year... she will also try to look better than me when we go out in public, once she thinks i start to look better than her she will start changing and adding things to her outfit or put on expensive name brand things...i mean she is 16, but she acts immature with the whole bragging thing about stuff thaisn'tnt hers. she also says a lot of bad things about her other friends and talk about how their annoying but the next day she will be hanging out with them, shes a cheerleader and is on dance team bdoesn'tsnt hang out with anyone except me and 2 other people..she also plays world of warcraft and has A LOT of online friends from there that will call her?...but when we go out doesn'tesnt get social, when on the other hand im always talking with people and she kind of sits in the back and irritatedeted..why do you think she acts like this

Do you think that Iran represents a clear and present danger to the security of the US?

No it's not. As you say in your first line "if provoked or attacked" well don't provoke them. The us will never attack Iran so it will never happen and in fifty years time when china and India run things Iran will be a dot on the timeline of history. While America will be a has been and another country trying to find it's place.

Will a pathological liar ever admit he is lying?

Chances are he does not care how you feel. A person who lies continually usually believes their own lies. And the more you talk about it the worse it becomes. I have had to deal with this same issue with someone who always does this. Sit back and wait because their lies will catch up to them and burn them. And when it does sit back make popcorn and watch the show.

How can I deal with a girl who says everyone's attracted to her ?

She thinks that everyone likes her looks and she keeps mentioning how everyone is attracted to her and so on. She always brings this up when we talk but at the same time she says that she is not interested in a relationship, that she wants to pursue other goals. I am definitely not attracted to her, I don't know why she is talking about such things. Could it be because she likes me? Could it be because she is a narcissist? I have no idea.

How much would it cost to get a professional photo shoot done?

the price depends on the photographer, but for sessions such as these in a privately owned studio you'd probably be ranging $200 - $500

Is this a good outfit?

it sounds cute if only if you would've put a pic on here i would've told you what doesn't go with what

Have you ever been in a relationship with a narcissist (someone with NPD)?

I have, and it's SO awful, I'm just dealing with our last and final big breakup. I don't know why I'd keep going back to him, I think he just tore me down so much, turned things around blaming me for everything, and I was hoping things would get better. I feel like I was making all the effort and he wasn't, only putting me down. How can I recover from that?

What describes a person who has faith but fears being called a narcissist or self-centered for being confinden?

They like to look at things as if they will work cause they find that the positive attitude does have influence often on the outcome. Yet, others say they are self-centered, a narcissist. What is this fear of being callted this names called & what would they be if they didn't have the fear? I guess they would be confident but is there something I am missing here?

Is it possible to get over being raped?

I just recently turned 16. Last year I was tanning in my back yard in my bikini. We have big fences all around the yard so no one can see into the yard. My neighbor came over and asked if he could borrow something. I told him sure and that I would get it for him. When I went into the kitchen. I felt him grab me from behind and he took me to the ground. I tried pushing him off me but he forced himself. When I finally was brave enough I told my parents. We took him to court but they threw out the case because of lack of evidence(his word against mine). I feel like maybe its kinda my fault. Maybe I provoked him by wearing a bikini. Is there any way to get over it?

Is a person a narcissist or a sociopath if they know their manipulation tactics work to get them more power?

If a person acknowledges that they enjoy using the common manipulation tactics listed for sociopaths and narcissist and that they dont see it any other way and hope not to change are they still a sociopath or a narcissist?

My husband cheated. How do I let go of the hatred?

My story is a little more complicated than just cheating. We were married for 8 yrs. I found out after he left that the cheating had been going on for most of those years off and on. The only reason why he told me of the despicable things he had done was to piss me off further. I now know there was a reason behind each one of his actions. He is a manipulator and narcissist. He even formed a closer relationship with our daughter when she was 7 in order to take me to court for shared custody. Of course, he blames me for the hurtful things he has done. I found out I was pregnant when he left. We both moved out of the house we are now selling. I moved into a tiny apartment and borrow my mom's bed. He insisted on a 50/50 visitation schedule for my daughter before we went to court. There are so many things I would do different. For one, I would have hired a better lawyer. When I tried to go see her, he would not let me in unless his girlfriend was there who he was cheating with and is now engaged to. They have been together for at least 2 years that I am aware of. He told me a few times that he is a happier person now and a changed person. So, he is basically in love now, supposedly more responsible with the children, quit drinking and is more of a family man. He has decieved me and manipulated me in such a way that I did blame myself for a while. After I had the baby and got rid of those nasty hormones, (yes I blame the hormones) I started to get wiser. Although, I am still beating myself up for trusting him for so long, putting up with his drinking and crap, and especially staying with him until he left ME! He humiliated me in front of family and friends by making everyone think that this new woman in his life is a much better person and will be a better wife than I was. I know my ego is suffering here but how do I get over the anger and bitterness? I know they are not my concern and I feel a tremendous weight lifted since I am not with him...by worrying about his infidelity. But, now but I have to listen to my daughter also tell me how wonderful his girlfriend is. Now he wants me to meet his girlfriend to show me what a great person she is. That just sounds weird to me only because he does not do anything for the good of anyone but himself. She may be, and I hope so for the sake of my kids. He is ordered to keep our 6 month old baby a couple of nights overnight every other week and he has never been an attentive, nurturing guy. I'm afraid he will do what he wants and will not listen to anyone about her needs. I just want to fast forward to when karma catches up to him.

How to get over narcissist ex boyfriend ?

How about you try just getting over it? It's easier than your making it. I mean seriously. **** happens. I don't mean to be a dick, but come on. I don't know why you women don't just leave these kinds of guys at the first sign of trouble.

My therpist met my husband (finally)?

The first few years are tough. You have to get used to being alone and being away from that person. But after that I am so happy. I don't have to listen to the abusive words, I don't have to put up with his I am better than anyone attitude. Its been 4 years now and I have my confidence back and feel better about myself. You will to. Just give it time.

How can i tell how many outfits this will make?

i remember doing this tree thing in math a long time ago but i dont remember how to do it the easy way. 7 jeans, 15 shirts, 2 dresses, 5 skirts, 3 shorts, 3 sweaters. please help!

Why are mixed people such narcissists?

Why are mixed people obsessed with their race and narcissistic as hell? They're also arrogant and bigots, if you're not attracted to them because they're mixed, you're a nazi! Is this because in actuality, people don't want the "race issue" to disappear. People want their race to be the most single important thing about them. It seems mixed people have the same view about themselves as the Nazis had about Nordics. That they're superior to everyone. That proves me right. Looks do matter

Are you the "type" to cheat or be cheated on?

I was cheated on before. && I don't plan to cheat, because I'm with the most amazing guy ever(: && I don't think there is a type of person who is most likely to be cheated on either, why? Once A Cheater Always A Cheater

Dear god, why does Oprah Winfrey act like the universe can't function without her?

I agree with you that her ego is definitely off the charts. To be honest, I never understood why people were so enthralled with her show. Her fans seemed to blindly respond to her every whim. They would buy ANY book or product that the woman endorsed! The couple of times I did tune in to watch one of her shows, they seemed very one-sided to me. It was clear that she wanted to voice *her opinions* expressly without anyone arguing back.

Have Jehovah's Witnesses "Commercialized" Religious Viewpoints? With a Magazine?

Are they the ones that put the little Jesus Fish thing on the billboards for their matress outlet, computer repair service, or other business?

Alcoholic mentally/ emotionally abusive husband/father has made life a living nightmare for over 17 years? ?

Everyday it's something different, but yet it's all the same. Always having to worry, always having intense anxiety, depression, fear, and anger that life has to always be this way, that it's impossible to see it ever getting better. I'm 17, and my father has just consistently, constantly gotten worse. He's meaner, more violent, extremely hateful, and ive honestly been convinced that he is the devil living on earth. I never had a childhood, what little bit of childish joy I had was torn apart everytime he'd have a psychotic blowout of screaming at the top of his alcoholic, hateful lungs. I've always been responsible, and extremely careful in everything I do. He's always been irresponsible and impulsive, and would never, ever allow someone to not let him get his way. He only thinks about himself, and doesn't care about anyone else, at all. If I say I have a sore throat or something, he'll only care about himself, and say, yeah, I've had a scratchy throat all day, and go on and on and on. Honestly, that's just the tip of the iceberg, but to make it a little shorter, ive learned he's very much a narcissist, and he's got a heavy dose of hubris in him, thinking he can do no wrong. I've never, ever gotten an apology out of him, neither has my mother, (who is my best friend, and I am super close with, thank God, or I would have gone out of my mind a long time ago.) he just blames everything, EVERYTHING on us. No matter how irrelevant it is, he thinks it's our fault, all the time. And puts everything to extremes, telling is to get out of our own house, and saying anything he can to hurt us. Accusing, threatening, breaking down any little piece of hope we have, and I don't know what to do anymore. We don't even have a car, so we can't get away. He sold the parts for the car for booze. I don't see any way out of it. We have no money to. I guess I

Im in love with my best friend boy?

i have to ask u ppl.......have u ever been in love with youre best fr?........because only if u are u may understand me....i like him alot.....because he make me feel happy around him......he hug me so much kiss me in forhead in face in neck (2times now) and said me everytime when he hug and kiss me that : ''i love u so much sincerely'' he gives me song in fb..and we flirt alot and we look so much in the eyes and provoked me .........we fight alot......but idk what should i do to make him known that i have a crush 4him? how to give a boy some sign ? and dp make him feel smth 4me?..........because some times agow he loves sooo much a girlllllllll but she refused him ........he everytime send in her fb coments likes and now he make this things alot with me.......im feeling pffffffffff needdd help.........

Is anyone else choosing to stay with their narcissistic boyfriend/husband if so how are you handling it?

I have been with him now for 6 years we have a 3 year old son together. I figured out he was a malignant narcissist a year and a half ago. I literally have nowhere else to go, my own family won't take me in because they HATE him and are afraid if I stay with them he will come around to see his son. So I am always educating myself on his disorder to help keep my sanity, and I threaten to leave him constantly to try and keep him under control but I am so unhappy dealing with his emotional abuse. I was just wondering if there were any other women out there dealing with this too and how you cope day to day. Thank you.

Why are men more likely to be narcissists than women?

We don't really know. It is the same as asking why women tend to get more depression or more likely to have borderline personality disorder or PTSD. We are wired differently.

This is one of the best answers I have ever read on this site?

I agree. it doesn't mean we should us "Ladies first" always. If a ship will sink, I'll desperately help and rescue myself rather than giving it to a woman. Especially if I have a family and kids to care and provide.

Have you ever had to deal with a narcissist?i do he's the father of my child and i do have to deal with him!?

Narcissim means that he has quite the ego, he's vain, conceited, etc. The problem is this. He is no longer your priority or your concern. He is going to do whatever he wants to do. You focus on your baby. Its now your job to love that baby, support your baby and be a good mother. That means feeding, changing, taking their temperature if they don't feel good, watch out for diaper rashes, take them to thier doctor visits, play with them, read to them early - even play classical music. When I had my baby I worked out with a video at home, played music, sat her in a secure baby chair and she would watch me clean, cook, mop, sweep. I would then take her for long walks to the seaport, we would snack and she would be calm and fall asleep. Never waist your energy on a man. Never ever. That just takes away from you. What do YOU still want to be? A nurse, a teacher, a doctor...you can still do it. The best support groups I've seen are churches. They provide spiritual counseling and advice, they provide CHILDCARE, daycare, activities, outings and your child needs to know God. They will be calmer and more at peace. If your current babys father insults you, leave him.. You need to be around positive people. Thank God I have been happily married for 17 years and thats because I believe in God and raised my children that way. Theres something missing in your life if you get upset too easily or if the focus of your life is about the babie's father. Take a long walk with your baby, get a part time job , go to church and things will work out. Dont forget the vitamins! God Bless.

How to fight a psychopath?

in my opinion, you cant fight them. they have no empathy or any feelings towards others. they just don't give a crap. you just have to deal with it. maybe make a petition or something to get him out.

I am worried I might be a narcissist/sociopath? please read.?

As a psychology major, I don't think you are either. They way it sounds, is you are a normal teenager trying to figure out life. Stop worrying about psychological disorders and comparing yourself to movies. You'll be fine, it just takes time.

Can I become a police officer with a Misdemeanor Simple Assault conviction?

I was charged as a Juvenile class C Misdemeanor simple Assault w/intent to provoke. This happened when I was 14. Will I be able to be a police officer if I applied? And no I did not lose my civil rights.

Why are narcissists successful at attracting women ?

I just want to know, why are they so successful, initially, at atracting women. what is it they do in their behaviour, thoughts, etc that is so attractive to women ?

Will a pathological liar ever admit there wrong?

Just tell him to go to hell. Send him on his way because he's evil. Then you can find the kids a better dad who isn't full of crap. And if you don't then youre full of crap too. Otherwise you can take some abuse and abuse a little yourself tell him he's a wonderful dad but unlike you he's a terrible liar. You can't fix him he's damaged forvever.

I need suggestions and ideas for cute practical outfits?

Well, you can wear a crop top or an over the shoulder with a comfortable soft tank top you can find at forever 21. Accessories will be a simple bracelet or necklace and for bottoms you can wear jeggings, mini shorts or cute cotton shorts you can find @ abercrombie. For bags, you can do over the shoulder or a hobo bag. Makeup will be simple black eyeliner, blush and lip gloss! TOMS are awesome! They are super comfortable and in style. Ballet flats work as well. The color depends on your outfit! HOpe this helps! :]

Friend problems? :'( I don't know what to do..?

right I have three main best friends, they are my life and i tell them everything. but today i was with one of my best friends and the other two were starring at me in a horrid way. I smiled at them and they turned away. so i went and sat with them and they just turned the other way and talked to someone else. so i was like mmkay, so i just joined in the convo and they ignored me. And i was sitting in the canteen before talking to one of them, and the other two came in and said ' come on '.....' and she walked off with them. I said hey guys wait up and they just walked off, sharing jokes together, laughing. they know im going threw a tough patch right now with one my family members being ill :-/ I am genuinely upset, i have done nothing to provoke this!: '( what can i do???

Weird, depressing, thought-provoking movie suggestions, anyone?

I like movies like Trainspotting, Fight Club, Garden State, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless mind, etc. What are some other good movies like this? I'm in one of those movie moods tonight. Thanks!

Alcoholic, mentally & emotionally abusive father/ husband has made life a living nightmare for 17 years.... ?

Everyday it's something different, but yet it's all the same. Always having to worry, always having intense anxiety, depression, fear, and anger that life has to always be this way, that it's impossible to see it ever getting better. I'm 17, and my father has just consistently, constantly gotten worse. He's meaner, more violent, extremely hateful, and ive honestly been convinced that he is the devil living on earth. I never had a childhood, what little bit of childish joy I had was torn apart everytime he'd have a psychotic blowout of screaming at the top of his alcoholic, hateful lungs. I've always been responsible, and extremely careful in everything I do. He's always been irresponsible and impulsive, and would never, ever allow someone to not let him get his way. He only thinks about himself, and doesn't care about anyone else, at all. If I say I have a sore throat or something, he'll only care about himself, and say, yeah, I've had a scratchy throat all day, and go on and on and on. Honestly, that's just the tip of the iceberg, but to make it a little shorter, ive learned he's very much a narcissist, and he's got a heavy dose of hubris in him, thinking he can do no wrong. I've never, ever gotten an apology out of him, neither has my mother, (who is my best friend, and I am super close with, thank God, or I would have gone out of my mind a long time ago.) he just blames everything, EVERYTHING on us. No matter how irrelevant it is, he thinks it's our fault, all the time. And puts everything to extremes, telling is to get out of our own house, and saying anything he can to hurt us. Accusing, threatening, breaking down any little piece of hope we have, and I don't know what to do anymore. We don't even have a car, so we can't get away. He sold the parts for the car for booze. I don't see any way out of it. We have no money to. I guess I just needed a venting session, some insight to why he does what he does to us. Im just hopeless, it seems like it never ends.

How to make an outfit more interesting?

Maybe just t shirt and jeans. Please don't say something like 'add jewellery' please be a little more specific :) Thank you!

Am i being haunted by a demon?

Well i think i am being haunted by this demon, it has been following me mostly my whole life. Now my name has 3 meanings, one of which means "devil spawn" and i am mentally insane and i have manic depression, but i do not think this is just in my head. It is worst when i am at my dad's house visiting. One night it called my name right before i fell asleep and then at some time in the night it screamed at me to wake up. I thought it was just a nightmare and tried to sleep but when i went to lay down i saw a shadow and then i threw me down onto the bed. I was hysterical and frantically called my friend in a rush of tears. The next day my sister was asking me all about it. And my friend, who is also mental...but she agreed that it wasn't just me. I was afraid to go to sleep and i also suffer from monophobia, the fear of being alone. I can't even take being near the stairs because once when i was little i heard steps behind me. Thinking it was my brother, i thought nothing of it. Then i felt something give me a shove down the steps. I took the tumble and when i looked up, there was nobody there. i was about 6 when this happened. I am only 13 now but since then i have developed a state of psychosis, monophobia, and manic depression. I am also still paranoid and was then as well. As my parents are divorced, i travel a lot to my mom's and my dad's. I think it follows me because at my mother's house, I was playing on my DSI and i saw a shadow on the door creep closer, but when i looked, it receded. I keep having night terrors about that one night when it attacked me. I have gotten to a state of praying for protection at night, but when i do things like this, asking people for help, it worsens. I put a bible by my bed but when i was in our library room i touched it an i heard a voice rasp "NO" then the railing on the stairs rattled. I dropped the bible and ran away. that night i had my brother put it on my night stand for me. It did nothing, in fact the phenomenon got worse. I feel like when i ask for help from the forums, it feels provoked. when i do this, it scratches the walls. when i pray at night it bangs the walls and scratches them. One night i was sleeping, wearing a low tank top, as it was summer. I awoke the next morning to find scratches on my arms, neck, shoulders, ankle, and on the tops of my breasts running to my throat. I have horrible thoughts that it could, and may kill me. I am scared so much, but nobody takes me seriously, as i am insane, but they don't take me seriously when i say its a demon, in fact, my brother taunts me saying "was it the ghosts?!" I really want and NEED help but nobody listens to a paranoid 13 year old girl. please somebody tell me what to do!!

How can i make him want me! i want him to look and think i want her but i cant ?

i am absolutely besotted by this guy and he's told me he likes me too. trouble is he wont do anything even kiss me because he scared of breaking his religion boundaries but says he really tempted! whats the best way to just show this gorgeous man what he is missing? even if we cant be together i just want to make him realise ?? please help ... best casual but sexy outfit ideas too please ... thank yooou xx

Should I ditch this person (long, scandalous drama)?

Sometimes friends opinions can be very judgmental, but they can also be the most help. I've gone through a similar experience as you (not the same criteria, but similar idea) the entire friendship is one sided. It's never a good thing to have, friendships are supposed to be two sided. I suggest backing slowly away from the friendship, not leaving it abruptly. I'm guessing you spoke to the friend in question about your feelings and how you feel, and still she refuses or forgets to change. Make yourself less available for her, start denying hang out session, make yourself unavailable to talk maybe then she'll realize the importance for your friendship, if not, at least you're growing away gracefully rather than through a fight or negative feelings, so you can still consider her a friend, just not a close friend, that way there is no drama between you two.

I'm in trouble from lies an rumors from girls please help.?

I don't know what problems these girls have got with me, but they HATE me!!. I'm in college and don't know anybody really. All these girls just know each other and just love to try and bring me down. I'm really slim and they always Judge me on it, and call me names, like Stick insect, anorexic ***** and so on...I know that sounds so petty but It doesn't bother me at all. What bothers me is they are reporting me, making stories up blaiming everything on me and getting me in to a lot of "trouble". Once they all were just dropping litter in the halls and the teacher came in and said who ever dropped this mess can pick it up now. and they all said "it was Naomi. I had to clean it all. Also a parent came in and complained about me for threaten her daughter because I grabed her by the throat... so I had my EMA taken off me (money) and a warning (I did nothing to this girl). I don't want to transfer because I don't want to show them it's bothering me. They don't bother me, what really bothers me is getting in trouble by staff who are taking my money off me for something I haven't done and taking grades or whatever they do when I just want to do my best. I know this sounds petty but you have no idea what it's like. My own mother is on to me from the tutors ringing home. I don't know what iv'e done to provoke these girls to doing this. I'm really quiet and I think thats why.

Questions about outfits. Girls and GUYS DOES THIS LOOK CUTE?

So i am going to the airport and i always see really cute guys my age and i look like crap! So i am going to wear my grey mickey mouse red white and blue shirt. (It's not babyish) and tie it then tuck it up on the inside and the wear a white cami underneath! and my black skinny jeans and blue flip flops so does that sound good

What should my cosplay outfity be?

theres far too many with the fox costume i advise the kitty. Though why not be totally original and come up with your very own costume, maybe a combination of creatures? Just an idea

Need an outfit for non school uniform!?

Hey, I'm 14 and I need an outfit to wear to quasar and school afterwards :L Its really hot at the moment but I don't like my legs at all so don't want to wear shorts on their own but don't own a pair of jeans either as they don't fit me right :/ any suggestions? Links would be very helpful<3

Title for my book, anyone?

I would name the book Scot with one "T". I always thought i was f'd up like "Jason" because my mom forgot a "T" plus I have ADD and I will never finish my book. So i will give you my title...

What is a "do gooder" narcissist?

a do-gooder narcissist is someone who makes themselves feel powerful by doing things to others. For example, if you spend all your time on YA answering people's life problem questions and it makes you feel good and you want the recognition then that makes you a do-gooder narcissist. People that like to point out what they have done and constantly needs "thanks" or some sort of recognition everytime something happens. That's what makes them a narcisisst.

Girls: What would be your ideal outfit for a first date?

A light cardigan, and a light summer dress. You can pair this with cute sandals, NOT flip-flops sandals!!! And you can put you hair up or leave it down which ever you prefer...also a cute necklace would look nice with this outfit!!

Am I a Psychopath or Sociopath or a Narcissist?

people who have those sort of things dont really question themselves about it. to me you just sound kinda anti-social , maybe something you will grow out of.

Poll & survey: Help me out with this one LOL. Seriously, guys, I posted this question?

True or False: You stay in and chill out on Friday nights? And my trolls reported it and it got deleted. haha? Ok, Luckily I have a life and a sense of humor because this happens to me lot here . Too many jealous haters here. Man, we should be here for light weight fun. Oddly enough I kind of get off on it being a narcissist and all...I'm getting a lot of attention and my trolls are getting more jealous.? So, with that I would like to take the opportunity to say "Thank You" in advance for the flattery....I have to go....my limo is waiting lol?

Summer Outfit! Please help!!!!! :D?

Try to wear bright colors and light clothing (during the hot season). Bright or muti-colors are great for the summer and spring season. Capri's, shorts, tank tops, camisoles. Try not to wear heavy clothing or dark as dark clothing will absorb more heat and make u warm. Or if u don't mind wearing skirts, go for colorful patterns or a basic solid skirt or pants with a colorful shirt (or vice versa) try to mix it up and if you have any fun graphic tees throw those in too. just do not wear dark heavy clothing during the summer (keep that for winter time). hope u can find a nice summer outfit u will enjoy. and of course throw in a good pair of sunglasses handbag and some jewelry (depends on likiing) And of course during the summer, it is a must to wear flip flops or sandals (or wear sneakers.

I was reading luke ch 10 the other day and this verse sorta stood out?

"He that hears you hears Me,He that despises you despises Me and He that despises Me despises Him that sent Me" .As I kinda thought about it the considerations and implications took my mind into different directions because does this not ring true (whether it has to do specifically with God or not) that if you're speaking or doing something on the behalf of someone else and those that you've been sent to don't receive what you were told to say then ultimately it's not just you they refuse but the person that sent you ? what (if any) thoughts does it provoke in you as you consider it?

Problems in the neighbor hood?

Black people hate Asians just as much as White people hate Ethnics, the law can't do anything about it apart from arresting everyone in the neighborhood which won't happen. Moving house is the smartest thing to do.

What do I wear to my highschool graduation?

How formal is the event? Just tell me if I should wear a suit or a less formal outfit like dress pants and a shirt, or jeans and a t shirt, I don't want help picking out what I'm going to wear. Thanks/1

What to wear for this job interview?

i am a 17 year old senior in high school. the local SPCA has a sign that says help wanted. What is appropriate outfit to wear to apply?

Sewing Pattern for a Micro Bikini/Dancer Outfit!?!?

Kwik Sew is probably your best bet. This pattern here: a href="http://www.kwiksew.com/catalog/cat_detail.cfm?pid=2769&Cat=Misses&Level=Swimwear&QL=MissSwimActiveWear" rel="nofollow"http://www.kwiksew.com/catalog/cat_detai…/a is a string bikini pattern that is quite simple to make. From their lingerie page there's a pattern for thong: a href="http://www.kwiksew.com/catalog/cat_detail.cfm?pid=2075&Cat=Misses&Level=Lingerie&QL=MissLingerie" rel="nofollow"http://www.kwiksew.com/catalog/cat_detai…/a There's also a site called "pattern school" and it teaches how to make swimwear patterns. once you know a few basics then making whatever you want is easy, you n o longer need to rely on buying patterns a href="http://www.patternschool.com/" rel="nofollow"http://www.patternschool.com//a if you click on lazy people patterns on the top navigation bar there's a pattern for a string bikini top.

How does a girl do this?

So you make up a totally whacky nut job scenario and then ask us how it comes to pass? I assume it is due to the bad burrito you had for dinner last night, or something. Perhaps you are on drugs?

Why is my ex trying so hard to kick me when I'm down? Please help?

Anytime someone goes out of their way to put you down, it is because they have a problem of their own. It is hard to tell what this problem is without more information about him. My advice, let the haters hate. Ignore the rumors, ignore the hatred, and respond...with niceness. Easy to do? No. But it will help, nothing will frustrate him more than you being happy for him and being nice to every mean thing he does. Also, maybe it is time for you to set your sights on the future and check out the other fish in the sea. And don't forget, get some support from your friends and family, maybe even see a school counselor and talk out some of your problems/get help for your depression. You never have to go through depression alone, and you shouldn't have to go through this harassment alone either.

How to deal with a pathological liar who wont admit there wrong?

..Hi there, First and foremost, you must let this go..This is about him only, not you and he is the one who inevitably will pay the consequences for his lying..Continue to educate your children on the importance of telling the truth, so they in the future will not get caught up in his or someone else's lying as well..You also must understand that this too, is a mental illness, and one he alone will have to get help for if/when he ever recognises it for himself..The important thing for you to examine, is why is this bothering you on the level that it is?..You may want to read up on codependency and how to separate, and keep, your issues from someone elses..Take care..

Who would agree that obama is a demagogue and a narcissist?

He suffers from narcissistic personality disorder as a result of his childhood abandonment syndrome.

What is the best way to get a vindictive narcissist ex to leave you alone?

We have a child in common and they are always causing some new trouble or other with their false accusations. I feel my child can't even bump themselves without DCFS getting involved.

Can someone get me out of this place?

Try meditating. Rather than forcing yourself to be happy and confident, you'll naturally enter a state of peace and find more clarity within yourself.

Lifeguard sayings needed!?

need sayings such as 'Lifeguards do it in the water' or 'have fun in the sun, get laid in the shade' to put onto the backs of a lifeguard fancy dress outfit! preferably funny or naughty!

How Do you Regain Faith In Humanity?

I don't understand how anybody going through the hell that is high school with even a shred of empathy can keep faith in humanity. Everyone around you is a narcissist with absolutely no concern for anyone but themselves. Even the people who pretend to care about you don't have a long enough attention span to fully hear out your issues when you try to explain "what's wrong." Most people get their greatest kicks off the pain of those around them. Being surrounded by all this I can't keep up any faith in Humanity. I feel like nobody actually cares about the people around them. How can someone keep faith in humanity while going through high school?

What do you think this means?

It means that you broke his heart and he's upset. Some people want any sort of attention, even negative attention. He's picking fights to get some sort of emotional reaction. Guys do not want to be just friends with women, not even "loyal friends." He's sticking around because he wants to get back together with you.

Should I cut myself off from my mother?

My mother is a narcissist. For years I have suffered under her control, and developed a codependency with her. I have been in therapy for a few years for this, and we have worked on things like individuation and coming to terms with my abuse as a child. However I still find myself preoccupied sometimes with wanting to make her happy, and wanting people to love me, and other codependent tendencies. Would it be beneficial to completely cut myself off from my mom, block her e-mails not answer her calls, etc?

Can a narcissist father receive 50/50 custody?

I am currently fighting to keep joint custody of my children. The father left me when I was about a month pregnant and has been fighting and manipulating me ever since. One child is 8 years old and the other is 3 months. He wants shared custody. We already have joint custody set for both. He is trying to take away my domiciliary rights but there is no basis on why he wants to take them from me and will not give up. He has the MONEY, I don't. That's what it's all about. He has always been an alcoholic and substance abuser since I've known him, about 10 years. He was not around much to take care of my oldest daughter when she was younger. When she got old enough to take care of herself, he became her playmate at best. Therefore, she likes to spend time with him. He does not make her do anything she doesnt want to do. There were a few incidents where he put her in danger such as drinking and driving. Furthermore, he claims to be a better man and attributes his change to his mistress that i found out about after the separation. I caught on to his manipulation by him texting me asking why I want to take the kids away from him so that he can have proof... He accuses me of same things that he actually does. I wish he WAS sincere and a better person for the sake of the kids but he is a true narssisist and a fake. No one else can see this! When will the truth come out? I am constantly defending myself so that I won't lose my kids and I have never done anything wrong! As far as the infant, he has tried to take her from my house since she was 7 days old and I was breastfeeding. What else can I do?

Flirting with the devil (almost literally).?

as long as you don't scorn her, you will be ok, once scorned . she will have no mercy. I have scorned a few and it's not for the faint hearted. I never figured I would live past 25 any way so I live on the edge. figuring it's only a matter of time and each day is a gift. I have had guns pulled on me, stalked and an assortment of crazies. but they are a wild ride.

How can a black man deal with mistreatment from certain black females(long)?

This is in no way intended to offend any black males/ females. As a 23 year old black male I have been constantly harassed and bullied by mostly black females in schools, colleges, public. They’ll diss me mercifully in front of people until someone has to jump in and tell them to stop. I remember when I was 11 and I came home crying because these group of black girls would constantly harass me 24/7 at school calling me blick, ugly, stink, monkey just for no reason. When the majority of them talk to me, or when I’m around them its like I feel some sort of negative vibe, like they have some sort of rage against me (basically talking with force). Its like the tone in their voices make me feel they want to rip off my head but why? Most of them were strangers to me until they tried to start some sort of trouble with me without me doing anything. I never done anything to them, I’m usually the type of guy who minds his own business and is into his education and I‘ve never had anytime to pursue any girls. Now the reason I say black females is because I can swear to you that majority of my problems have been caused by black females. My mother past away 7 years ago and when I look back on past having grown up now I realised that she didn’t care about me one bit and I could tell through her actions that she never thought about me (long story). There were times when she will give me dirty looks for no reason or she’ll look for a reason to take her anger out on me and I could tell. Same for my elder sister who had a child and ran away and I had to end up helping to raise her with my abusive dad. She hasn’t been in contact with me for 7 years and when she usually does she never doesn’t want to know anything about me or her daughter, she’ll even insult me sometimes. Maybe it was because of my abusive dad and she is taking it out on me, same with my mother I don’t know. Not long ago, I started university to get away from the city I was experiencing such mistreatment expecting things to change but I still run into the same problems although it’s not as bad as before. I still get dirty looks, teeth kissing just plain negative attitude. Its like everywhere I go minding my own business, I’ll come across at least one black female who seems to hate me. People may probably say that I must be doing something to provoke this but I can assure you I’m not otherwise I would have got this type of mistreatment from everyone instead of mostly black females and my friends wouldn’t have noticed the exact same scenarios.

I need some cute summer outfit ideas! :)?

go to hollisterco.com an look at the section called "get the look." it has many cute outfit ideas. try fishtailing or braiding your hair. also, spray a salt spray in your hair and tousel it to get beachy waves.

Going to Cali in a couple weeks, outfit ideas?!?

The weather will be in the 70's and I need outfit ideas for disneyland, california adventures, universal studios, the beach and downtown LA. Oh and Im a 17 yr old girl :)

Can my desire for sex be the cause of our problems?

Most men think like you. I know my husband has nasty thoughts about women in the grocery store it is written all over his face. Does he act on it no. You guys are just wired that way. You have no control over what other men think of your wife. Stop getting so jelouse she is loving it to much and likes that you are getting jelouse. She also is probably making up stories as well.

Could I have a personality disorder?

I'm scared to tell my family and friends whats wrong with me because I don't want them to think i'm crazy. I already have mild OCD and problems with anxiety and my therapist and parents sometimes feel I may be a narcissist but i'm not always like that and it confuses me. What i'm trying to say is that sometimes I feel as if i'm 2 completely opposite people and not just by my moods or how i'm feeling, but my beliefs and everything will switch back and forth. And it's not something i can control it is something that just randomly overcomes me. For example, one moment i will feel like everyone should be created equal, and you should be nice to everyone and act very genuine. but then out of no where, i can become very cruel and mean and to an extreme extent believe that it is okay to kill people and have no sympathy for anyone. I don't understand why I can hardly ever stay in the middle, i'm always switching both roles and when i do i can never understand why i ever felt the way i do on the other side. Is this normal or can this be any form of a personality disorder?

Do you like yourself?

I had a discussion with an associate the other day about "people who always put others down"...This same discussion came up in my psych class. It is said that one who always puts another down is actually dealing with self-loathing(NARCISSIST COMPLEX)...WHAT DO YOU THINK? DO YOU LIKE YOURSELF OR, ARE YOU ALWAYS PUTTING OTHERS DOWN?

Why is this guy telling me he likes this girl when I don't even care?

He's trying to make you jealous so you will go after him, just like the other girls. Just tell him to back off and that you honestly don't care. He will stop. Good luck!

How do I make myself look pretty? Plz read description?

I have a bet going on with my friend. It's to whoever can look the prettiest (my other friend being the judge) on the last day of school. I need an outfit (nothing too inappropriate), a hairstyle, and makeup. I need some help 'cause I don't wanna lose my 5 bucks!!!

I believe it is important to look your best everyday because you must look?

good and your best to feel good. Even if that means getting up a little early to do your self grooming, makeup and hair just right. And to choose your best outfit so you look your best. The world does notice if you have taken good time to look good and you get more self-confidence this way. A good looking society is best. Do you agree?

What provokes someone to ask the same thing over and over and over.....?

They're the same person. She slipped up and posted on the same account. I think she does have problems.

What do you think this means?

Guys do not understand a broken heart, they just feel upset for a day and then get on with their life and he doesn't understand why you are not doing the same. he wants you as a girlfriend and at the moment you do not want that because of your broken heart. Tell him you have too much going on in your life at the moment and maybe in the future you will see him as a boyfriend but to leave you alone at the moment. As for the broken heart, do you think it is going to mend itself if you sit and feel sorry for yourself, from past experience the only way to mend a broken heart is to get on with your life. Good Luck.

Sexy birthday outfits for a 15 year old?

I am going to Florida for my 15th birthday and we are going out to dinner at a very nice restaurant.I want to look hot/sexy but not to formal.I need some ideas and were i can get the outfit.And please no comments about how I'm to young.Thanks:)

If someone incites or provokes a fight are they guilty?

If someone says "F-u and stuff about your moma," and you strike a blow first, are these grounds good for you to win, that is, he would be guilty for inciting the blow?

Has anyone seen these?

I recently watched the anime, Angel beats! and Elfen Lied. Both are very deep and thought provoking. I cried during both of them as well. Complete with beautiful story lines and animation, i strongly reccomend any anime fan to watch these. Im usually the guy who watches mecha anime (I.e Code Geass, Evangelion) but these are amazing. Give me you're thoughts, and some reccomendations based on these. Thanks!

What to buy for back to school shopping?!?

Something I like to do when I go back to school shopping is start all over. I like getting new everything! I would buy a few outfits, or outfits for the first week of school and then some essentials. Essentials as in some plain t-shirts, graphic t-shirts, tank tops, and some more fancy tops. Then for bottoms make sure you get a few pairs of jeans, some skirts, shorts, and capris. For shoes, your going to want to get an everyday pair of shoes that you will wear a lot. Then maybe a few pairs of shoes you may not wear everyday, but you will still wear. As for accessories I go to a store where they have really cheap jewelry (FOREVER 21!) and I stock up for the school year. I also like to renew any makeup, hair products, and anything else I use on a daily basis. I hope I helped! Just make sure to get everything that you will wear again, and what you're comfortable in. Stick with the basics because they go a long way! Just a few plain t-shirts can be worn so many times, so different ways.

I don't feel empathy, I'm not human?

Sociopathic or depression it seems. Research into the two and see if they fit. There are pills for depression but for sociopaths you'll need a therapist.

Is this considered abuse?

Today my sister somehow got mad at me. I didn't do anything to provoke her. She lashed out and called me a slut then a prostitute. Then she said in front of my mom that she knew I was smoking weed in the basement with my friend(I wasn't even in the basement and haven't smoked pot in a long time). Then she grabbed my sweater near the neck and started to push me into the wall and basically slam me over and over. She basically threw me around. My mom ddint do **** about it. This has happend so many times before. I'm scared now because she said she's going to kill me. I want to press charges. I don't care what it'll do to my family. She deserves it and she has ruined my ******* life. Please help. Btw she's 18. I feel abused both mentally an physically.

Did I have a paranormal experience?

yes you did. goosebumps can be a way to know that a ghost is near by and when you were feeling depressed was when you were feeling what the spirit felt

I told my bf that the doctors are doing tests on me for cancer, and he hasn't even called. Why?

About a year ago my doctor found pre-cancer in me. They've been monitoring it, but lately I have felt that there is something wrong with me. I taste strange things like metal and see weird visions. My doctors are doing tests on me to see what it is. I've been with my bf for about two years now, but we've been on a break for about three months 'cause we were fighting al the time and he has a problem with honesty. He cheated on me in the past and I gave him another shot, but he continues to be dishonest in even the little things. After three months of no contact he asked me out to dinner about a week ago so I went with him. When we were out he noticed the gauze bandage from the IV from a surgery that I had two days prior and asked me why it was there and I told him that I had the surgery as part of the tests that my doctors were doing on me and he asked me a few questions about it and then acted like it was nothing. When he dropped me off at home he said he would pray for me and then never called again. haven't really told anyone about this except my really close friends, my parents and him, but he's the only one that doesn't even call or seem to care. His dad died of cancer btw. He's known about the pre-cancer from a year ago and never acted like it was even a big deal. He's been partying pretty hard these past three months (per his FB page) and hasn't stopped at all since I told him about my surgery. It's like it doesn't even bother him. I've always felt that he may be a narcissist. Can anyone help me understand what he's thinking?

Zoo/Shopping Outfit?

flats, skinny jeans and a nice tank top. u dont have to wear sweat pants or anything its not like ur gunna b riding the animals a t the zoo

I need a good anime or manga?

okayy thats long but the best one for u is Rurouni Kenshin. Read the manga because its 10x better then the anime plus theres more Romance between the main guy and the main girl. Plus theres alot of things to laugh and be shocked about. Once u get to the Enichi Saga (u'll find out after u read it) U wont wanna STOP!

How long will we have to fight the creations & legacy of Reagan?

The Reagan worship on the Right makes me ill. They are so misinformed about anything he really did or the legacy he created.

How to be a true narcissists? I think I am one be I have thoughts of other people?

I didn't before but I work around a bunch of ugly insecure woman I'm trying to ignore but Its impossible. How to be a narcissists

What animals are silent but deadly?

they only attack when provoked or they haunt their pray silently without them expecting them.. more than one will be helpful

Could I have a personality disorder?

I'm scared to tell my family and friends whats wrong with me because I don't want them to think i'm crazy. I already have mild OCD and problems with anxiety and my therapist and parents sometimes feel I may be a narcissist but i'm not always like that and it confuses me. What i'm trying to say is that sometimes I feel as if i'm 2 completely opposite people and not just by my moods or how i'm feeling, but my beliefs and everything will switch back and forth. And it's not something i can control it is something that just randomly overcomes me. For example, one moment i will feel like everyone should be created equal, and you should be nice to everyone and act very genuine. but then out of no where, i can become very cruel and mean and to an extreme extent believe that it is okay to kill people and have no sympathy for anyone. I don't understand why I can hardly ever stay in the middle, i'm always switching both roles and when i do i can never understand why i ever felt the way i do on the other side. Is this normal or can this be any form of a personality disorder?

How to deal with a confusing life? Please help..?

Wow Bethany, you have had some life so far! This question interested me because it is so much like my wife's life. Her mother was a drunk, her dad in prison, foster care, etc. When I asked her how she turned out so well, she told me she learned from her parents mistakes. She says that just because her family is so messed up, doesn't mean she had to be. Don't get me wrong. It wasn't always easy. She worked very hard for what she has. But I think a big part of it is knowing what you want out of life. Making the right choices and looking ahead with a plan. I'm sure you'll be ok just from the way you express yourself in your question. Good luck and don't forget to smile in the mirror when you wake up in the morning, and always stop to smell the roses.

What colors go with everything?

I was going to design some converse online. I want to make them cool, not make them blend in with the wall! But I want them to match with every outfit I have, if that's possible, Or at least match with most of them. Any ideas? :) Thanks and please comment nicely :)

How could i make a gangster costume?

Hello, I ordered a army person outfit, but unfortunately it was to big :( and I cant send it back, so I now have to create a new outfit - Gangster girl, I have a black skirt and a shirt I could wear, ( im only 14 so nothing to showy) How could I improve this/ what accessories should I add? Thanks.

Landlord's tenants harassment & California laws-HELP!!!?

nope - lost cause and even worse - you need to get out of there quickly - before something really bad happens - to you - also the only thing you can do is small claims court - but that wont get you nowhere either - next time screen the roomates before leaving a deposit - and try to find a share rental with 4 or less people

How to look pretty in the summer?

Well summer is here and there is a guy I'm really into and there's a swimming party coming up and I want to look pretty. I need help! Any videos, links or advice? I need help with makeup and outfits. Please? For the makeup, I'm looking for something light for teens But using eyeliner too! (Yeah I'm picky) And maybe help with hair too? Don't know the hairstyle but my hair is dark brown with carmel highlights (longer than my shoulder).

Why is randomness in suffering?

I am a young mother suffering from terminal cancer, would leave my children motherless, that breaks my heart. I am truthful here, in my present life I have been righteous, I have never consciously hurt any human or animal except provoked. In fact my children say to me all the time I am the best mother they could ever have. I wonder for those people who believe in God ( I want to believe as well) why would not God let me stay alive to fulfill my lifes dreams. Why am being dragged away from life against my will. I have to do so much. The other possibility is that terrible things happening to people is just bad luck. Why me? Why not me as my children need me. The questions are so many...I am grappling in the dark for answers. I just hope that light will enter my my soul and give me the answers. My love for my children is no powerful that all the religious explanation like karma, gods trials, suffering is part of life does not make sense. The murderers live until ripe old age enjoying the state benefits then a working mum like me is asking for life of giving. Why taketh away from me?

How do you stop rings from turning your fingers green? Is there a way?

I bought this really cute cubic zirconia ring. It turns my finger green, but its very fashionable and goes with all of my outfits. I dont want to not wear it so any pointers or helpful tidbits? No rude remarks please, obviously i already know my ring is a cheapy, but i love it anyways.

Outfits and things I can take to my 1 day at great america?

im going to great america with my friends for one day but I have no idea what to wear and what to take. but for the outfits can it be something other than shorts because im a thicker girl and dont like showing TOO much leg .Thanks

How can I be certain if I'm dating a Narcissist?

From what I have read, I have reason to believe my girlfriend has Narcissistic Personality Disorder...but it is so subtle and I'm not a professional. How can I be sure?

New Zealand humanities/history question?

i want to know if the europeans were to blame for the destruction of the moriori or was it the maori's fault. so was it the europeans who provoked or was it the maori and why. i need answer quickly

What do you think this means?

His feelings are hurt because he wants you as a girlfriend and you are not into him. If you don't want him for a boyfriend I think you should just tell him that being friends is not going to work out and that you don't want to see him at all. That way he will get over you and move on. Now he just can't help acting like an idiot because he is all messed up about you. It would probably help him if you just said no calls, texting, no anything. Unless you are actually interested in him. I think you are kind of interested because why else would you care What he is reading. In that case just be his girlfriend and see what happens. Good Luck!

How come Megadeth fans never hesitate to bash Metallica?

Becsause we megadeth fans are tired of metallica getting all the fame and fortune and respect megadeth deserve.Metallica sucks without mustaine and burton megadeth still rocks without friedman and poland.And metallica stole their biggest song enter sandman from excel and ripped of a sh*t ton of other bands to in addition to stealing mustaines 7 songs.

Make me a cute casual outfit?

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Are narcissists happy and full of self esteem?

Some of them seem that way!? Happily making others miserable. How do you cure one not for their benefit but for the benefit of the people they will go on to hurt?

Will someone make me an outfit?

From Forever 21. I'd like it to be edgy but casual. Make as many as you like :) Also keeping it on the cheaper side. Just link the items you choose.

Why are mixed people such narcissists?

Why are mixed people obsessed with their race and narcissistic as hell? They're also arrogant and bigots, if you're not attracted to them because they're mixed, you're a nazi! Is this because in actuality, people don't want the "race issue" to disappear. People want their race to be the most single important thing about them. It seems mixed people have the same view about themselves as the Nazis had about Nordics. That they're superior to everyone. That proves me right. Looks do matter

Guys, what uniform would you like your gf to wear?

I think the schoolgirl look is really hot, like the private schoolgirl uniform. I might be losing my viginity this weekend and my girlfrined asked if there was anything I'd like her to wear, so I said the private schoolgirl outfit. What uniform would you like your gf to wear?

Am i a narcissist or it is just normal?

I do the same with guys. Maybe it's narcissistic, who knows. Or maybe it's just a natural mood booster? As long as you don't base your self esteem off of it, no worries.

How can i keep them away?

Put up a sign that says "ringers of this doorbell will be burned to death by a flamethrower that I have rigged the bell to be the trigger of. If you need me, call. Dont ring the damn bell."

Why do celebrities and other rich people do this?

I am NOT AGAINST rich people spending their money to buy expensive clothes and shoes, I would do the same. What I never understood was why a lot of them will pay $5,000 a pair of pure Italian leather heels and only wear them once? Why do most celebrities wear their thousand-dollar outfits only once?

What creates this monster in some people?

Narcissist? Does come from child hood abuse? Could incest be apart of this disorder? Or am off point?

Shunned in dance class... so lost and sad... Please help??!!!?

Go to a new dance school. Even if you must have to do everything all over again , it's good for review and nicer people may be there. These people are just very rude , and you should just go to a different school. Maybe though you could be talking to the teacher way to much? There used to be a kid in this class which many hated , and he talked to the teacher wayy to much. Like 9 times a day just to tell her about his weekend.

Worst B-day gifts, narcissist mom, cheer up please...?

If you haven't already done so, move out on your own and limit contact with your mother. For her birthday buy her a hand mirror and tell her it is for admiring herself. Buy a package of bubble gum and a box of fabric sheets for the dryer. Then from now on send only a birthday card. Most mothers cherish their children and want to make them happy. Not all mothers a maternal. Sounds like your mother is one of those mothers.

My husband cheated. How do I let go of the anger?

We were married for 8 yrs. I found out after he left that the cheating had been going on for most of those years off and on. The only reason why he told me of the despicable things he had done was to piss me off further. He is a manipulator and narcissist. He even formed a closer relationship with our daughter when she was 7 in order to take me to court for shared custody. Of course, he blames me for the hurtful things he has done. I found out I was pregnant when he left. He insisted on a 50/50 visitation schedule for my daughter before we even went to court and would not let me see her on his DAYS. He is not engaged to his mistress of at least 2 years. He told me a few times that he is a happier person now and a changed person. So, he is supposedly more responsible, quit drinking and is more of a family man because of this woman. What does that make me? He has decieved me and manipulated me in such a way that I did blame myself for a while but I started to get wiser after I had the baby and took my life back. Although, I am still beating myself up for trusting him for so long, putting up with his drinking and crap, and especially staying with him until he left ME! He humiliated me in front of family and friends by making everyone think that this new woman in his life is a much better person and will be a better wife than I was. I know my ego is suffering here but how do I get over the anger and bitterness? I know they are not my concern and I feel a tremendous weight lifted since I am not with him...by worrying about his infidelity. But, now but I have to listen to my daughter also tell me how wonderful his girlfriend is. Now he wants me to meet his girlfriend to show me what a great person she is. She may be, and I hope so for the sake of my kids. He is starting to keep our 6 month old overnight every other week and is trying to get shared custody of both children in addition to a step son he will soon have to start his new family.

Has anyone shopped at a web site where complete clothing outfits are available?

I came across this site many years ago and am so sorry I didn't note the web address (been looking for it ever since). On this site every outfit is shown complete with matching shoes and handbags. It looks like just the thing for someone who hates to shop. Each page had up to four different outfits pictured with alternate styles and suggestions. If you have shopped at such a site would you please pass the address along to me. It will be so appreciated cause I truly hate to shop.

What are the odds of finding an adult male like this? (10 pts)?

Are you a lesbian? You describe the personality traits of a female and you linked a picture of a guy who looks like a girl.

Would it bother you if every time you dropped your toddler off at your MIL's house to visit for the day?

and when you picked her up she was always changed into another outfit? Usually this is a dress of some sort. I put dresses on my daughter sometimes, but don't think it is practical for her to wear them every day. It bothers me that she always has to change my daughters clothes from what I put her in to something she wants her to wear. I am a first time mom, so I don't know if I am just sensitive or would it bother you too?

Senior pictures soon... Ideas? Help?

I'd actually suggest to wear your hair and do your makeup as your normally do if you're happy with how you look. People tend to overdo it when it comes to senior pictures... When I look back at my yearbook, everyone looks so drastically different than what they really did in high school. Just do whatever you feel will capture you best so that when your classmates look back at it years from now, they'll really remember who you are. Good luck!

Any advice for picking quality men and avoiding the losers and narcissists?

Don't fixate on looks. Don 't go gold digging. Don't pretend to be something you are not. The keepers are not always the ones that make the best first impressions

Is this man a narcissist or sociopath or something else?

Dump him, move and change your number. That guy is bad news. From that I assume he has a personality disorder. There is no instant cure for those unfortunately. Occasionally personality disorders can be helped with intensive therapy, like DBT for borderlines. Don't even consider this guy, unless he goes through intensive therapy and has changed. Please, save yourself.

How can I get my husband to understand that he's not helping our daughter, he's hurting her?

I think that what Paul is doing is wrong because he's just making her feel badly but what you're doing is wrong too. Instead of sheltering her you need to work with her, it's not okay for her to hit and it's like you're making excuses, and you're making excuses for a lot of stuff she does and eventually you won't be there for her and that's going to be so hard on her, not to mention you're ignoring your other daughter who clearly needs you just as much. Why is Serenity more important then Henrietta?

Girlfriend lies and problems?

It's year one and you are having these personality clashes while not living together. It will only get worse in confined quarters together. Year one should still be the honeymoon period. Move on and enjoy your youth. There are lots of amazing people out there to meet.

Proclamation of 1763, why the line provoked resentment among the settlers?

The proclamation of 1763 established a proclamation line in the new territories....... Give one reason why the line provoked resentment among the settlers.

I hate my mother............?

First of all. You need to undertand your mother needs help for herself.she is a unbalance person,which, she is unhappy with herself. She might compare herself to you because you are her daughter,shd does not appreciate you,for her unhappiness childhood ,she had have in the passed that are still hunting her until thiis day. Do not listen to her anymore . You are special and you will be someone in the future. Believe inner self. Let her be unhappy and move on with your one life. Be strong and do not give up.

What are some clever, thought provoking quotes?

Pretty self-explanatory, but I would love some help. Please don't tell me to Google or find them for myself, I've looked, but I'd rather hear what you have to say. Any quotes/opinions/thoughts you know or have are *great* even if you make them up yourself! :) Anything works.

How do you end adult guardianship over someone?

Call the Adult Protective hotline in your state and explain your situation. You can search on the Department of Health and Human services website. If you can't find it, call their main number and explain what you need. They should be able to direct your call. You have the right to terminate adult guardianship and choose which guardian you will have if the court determines you need guardianship. If you don't get anywhere with the state, call the Disability Rights Center in your state. Just google Disability Rights Center and your state name.

Why is it that when you confront overly critical people and stand up for yourself they disappear?

Over the last couple months my Sister's been picking on me finding something wrong in everything I do...calling me a Narcissist which I know I'm not and find completely offensive and when I confront her about it and tell her to stop she no longer calls or wants to associate with me? What's up with that?

I think that there is something wrong with me?

Nothing's wrong with you. I think almost the same, except I get along with those I meet or just stay quiet if I'm offended. However, if I'm offended more than one or two times I'll definitely say something. i mean, a few friends of mine do this to me, and I will definitely won't stand for being a chopping block for their insecurities.

How to get over narcissist ex boyfriend ?

Good for you for leaving him. I am still with my narcissistic boyfriend and he is literally driving me crazy. I really can't stand him and I call him out constantly on his narcissistic behavior but it doesn't change anything because they are incapable of change. though he does sometimes admit he is a narcissist. The only reason I am still with him is because we have a 3 year old son and I literally have nowhere else to go. My own family won't even take me in because they HATE him and they know if I'm there he will come around to see his son. He has stolen from my family, good friends, and even a place I used to work. We have been together over 6 years and I discovered his problem was narcissism about a year and a half ago. I educate myself constantly on his disorder and I plan on doing everything in my power to make sure our son doesn't become one of these monsters. Through research I have learned how to keep him somewhat under control but I feel like it is destroying me emotionally. If we didn't have a child I would not be with him I wish I had a way to get out like you did. I really envy you. Be strong and be happy you are rid of your emotional vampire. Once you meet a REAL man you will forget all about him. I say get out there and find a man that will treat you the way you deserve to be treated!!!!

Eyes mean everything?

now the point is that he is my best friend (boy) and we flirt like today....4example : we were in table today and every-time i look he was staring me and see me with his green eyes grgrgrgr :S ♥♥♥♥♥♥ and provoked me..........what does this thing mean + he give me a love song in my facebook......with love lyrics .....i don't know what to do with him anymore sometimes i think he like me just like a friend sometimes i think he like me more im confused give me 1answer pls ppl i need someone to learn me smth

Numbness, no empathy?

You need to talk things out with a Psychologist. I was cold like that years ago, and my doctor got me out of it, and now I feel the appropriate feelings. I only was upset if an animal died or got hurt. If a person was hurt or died, it didn't phase me. My doctor helped me through all this.

Hi! So usually at school I wear a t shirt and jeans but this year I want to be all out girly. Outfit ideas?

I have dark brown hair, almost black. My eyes are brown so if you could give me some eyeshadow colors that would look good with my eyes? That would be great. Umm I shop at forever 21 hollister areopostale PAC sun and wet seal! Thanks!!

How long will we have to fight the creations & legacy of Reagan?

The Reagan worship on the Right makes me ill. They are so misinformed about anything he really did or the legacy he created.

My boyfriend told me ...... ?

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 11months. ( We're 17 ) We were at the mall with a few of our other friends , and the whole time we were there , random guys were just making comments as in , idk , Sexual comments , or noises or breathers ( to both me & the 2 other girls there ) . So a different guy walked by and said a comment , and I was standing by my boyfriend this time , & I said " That can get REALLY annoying ". He said " Well what the hell do you expect when you dress like that " . We live in LA , so obviously the weather is continuously hot . My friends and I all wear the same types of outfits / dress the same. He has always complemented me before on whatever I had on . His comment Really upset me and I cant get it off of my mind, he's always been a phenomenal boyfriend , hes smart , funny & EXTREMELY cute. I don't know if I should talk to him about the situation , because I really don't wanna loose him over something ridiculous. My closest friends are horrible at giving advice so I came here.... What should I do ?

I'm really getting nervous about my FSIL and the wedding.. any advice?

I really don't understand why she is in the wedding. I would never allow this. And if my fiance didn't back me up and say, yeah this behavior has gotten out of control, she shouldn't be in the wedding, well then we either wouldn't be having a wedding or we wouldn't be getting married at all. I guess I am just a low-drama, hassle free person who doesn't put up with this kind of bull crap. Look at all the energy you are wasting on this one person. Buying a book, having to ask friends and family to basically babysit her during your wedding. Really? Ridiculous. Just tell her she isn't a bridesmaid anymore and ignore her calls asking about wedding stuff. Really, too much time wasted on this, makes me think maybe the drama is a little bit, enticing? Otherwise why would you even put up with this???

How can I get rid of my anger?

I'm 13 years old and female and it seems I have a short temper or something because I strangled a girl for taking my pencil a few weeks ago. I try to calm down, but that's hard when people provoke you. I need to know how to calm down when I'm angry. I've tried that counting to 10 thing and even having a stress ball, but it doesn't help! In fact, I threw the stress ball at someone. I hate when people take my things and when they do I snap. I grabbed a boy by the coller of his shirt and threw him into a desk for taking my paper without asking and I tackled another boy to the ground for doing the same thing (and he was 5'6" and I'm only 5'0")! Then there was this girl who took my notepad and I beat her on the ground and pulled out her hair, so she know has a bold spot in the back of her head. It seems this has gotten out of hand and my family members edge me on, saying things like "kick their *** if they touch you!" So they're no help. I come from a naturally violate family too. My own mother has beaten a girl with brass knuckles before when she was younger and beat a lady at the supermarket up. (she herself and my uncle who was with her when it happened told me) and my older brother was known for throwing chairs at people when he was little, like 5th grade! So how do I get rid of my anger? I'm going to a new school this year and I don't want people to be afraid of me like at the old school.

Was I wrong to end my friendship?

She probably views you at that "gay friend who she can complain to". Every girl needs one of those right? Sarcasm. Anyways, she needs to realize she's being selfish. You weren't being too harsh, you were simply telling her the truth. You have been way too nice to her anyways. If I were you, I would've stopped talking to her ages ago. Since she does think she's a narcissist, she's using you to vent. It's not fair for you, because she never listens to you. I don't see a point in this friendship.

How do I get the abusive narcissist to recognize himself?

If your partner is narcissist the best thing get him to go to a psychiatrist, counseling want help it is better to see a mind analyst to get some treatment.The thing is that he can not help him self doing it, and you can not understand him, when he think he is given you pleasure by what he tell you, you would be confuse and you would not keep a good conversation between you two.

Is Obama the most narcisstic president in US history!?

Did you forget Carter, now the democrats have two bad presidents, that have caused havoc on this country.

What do you call someone who's a glory seeker? Besides a narcissist.?

I'm not looking for terms like narcissist, vain, egotistical, histrionic, selfish, self-glorification, or boastful. These words are not quite what I'm looking for. Is there a word in the English language with the exact definition "A person who seeks glory" or something along those lines?

How do I become more known in school? And my friends too?

Ehem. Excuse me for telling you this, but being a popular gang isn't the best thing. Don't dress in stupid trends. Dress how you feel, and if they don't show off, who the hell cares? I know my answer is not what you'd like to hear, but this is just immature crap. If you want to stand out, don't do any crazy stunts. Popularity is not just a virtue, as it looks from where you are now. It'll get bad, trust me, I know.

What Makes Unemployment Low or High?

I believe immigration is a huge factor to why unemployment is so high. The UK joined the EU in September 2007. All of a sudden the flood gates were open and the Polish, Romanian and every other EU country were allowed in. The goverment realised they had screwed up so now its alot harder to get in but the damage has already been done. We now live in a society which is forever growing but not enough jobs to go around. I don't blame the people only the goverment for letting it happen in the first place.

Can someone make me an outfit for a swim party?

So I'm going to a swim party this week and I don't know what to wear. Its going to be like 90 degrees and its so hard to choose what to wear because I wanna be casual but trendy and be able to impress everyone who's there. I also need shoes and a bathing suit so if u guys could add that in. Also I'm only a preteen but I dress in juniors or like older kids stufff. Thx guys

Would this be a cool outfit for me to wear on the first day of high school?

Loving the jeans and the shoes! Not to sure about the top, for a first day at high school, I think your reveling a little too much about your personality. Just wear something casual to start with then gradually start wearing clothes that suit to your personality more. But from what I have said, don't feel like you should wear something your not comfortable in, just wear something loose, casual and something comfortable! Hope this helped!:')

If someone tells everyone what a good person they are...?

all the time.Is that person a narcissist? My sister does this.She even goes so far as to say in front of me that she is our mothers best child this is a grown woman over 40.So is she a narcissist ?

Where can I find a teen's Hermione Granger costume?

I'm going to see HPatDH with my friend (as every Potter lover will) and she's absolutely set on dressing up as the characters. I want to go as Hermione Granger but I can't find a single half-decent outfit. I'm a size 10 and I don't want anything revealing (it is Hermione the nerd anyway!) Thank you!

What should i wear to the airport?

Hello I'm taking a trip to orlando from arizona this summer and I was wondering what would be the best outfit to wear?

How does a girl do this?

Girl A and Girl B are friends. Girl B gets hit on alot by guys, which makes Girl A very jealous, since Girl A doesn't get hit on by guys that often. Girl A, out of jealousy, turns Girl B against every guy that shows romantic interest in Girl B by convincing her that every guy that hits on her is below her standard. Eventually, Girl B ends up hating every guy that shows interest in her. In this way, Girl A prevents Girl B from ever having a boyfriend. How does Girl A accomplish this sort of feat? And is Girl A a narcissist?

What is a person "called" when they find everything wrong in whatever you do?

For instance, if you think about only yourself you're a "Narcissist". What would someone that finds wrong in everything you do be called?

Outfit ideas for sumertime for an "indie-ish" style?

Hey guys, so basically I love how I dress in winter. I wear a lot of layers and long jeans and Toms and such, and my style's pretty rad, from my perspective. But when it's summer, I'm lost. I live in a place where summer is ridiculously hot, so I can't keep up wearing jeans and tights and all of the things I love. I don't want to sound poser-ish, but in reality my style is a bit "indie-ish" and unique. I don't want to give up my style, or expose too much of my body in summer, and I want to be able to keep bits of my style. Any pictures and/or ideas? Thank-you everyone!! :) xx

Is science eating the lunch of religion (see below)?

Science is not possible without God. He constructed it. Science does not disprove God and never will.

Do you think this guy is a narcissist or psycopath?

I'm not a psychiatrist or psychologist, but I'd say he's a Narcissist, and that you should high-tail it out of that relationship.

What do you think of this verse I wrote?

The flow isn't as smooth as usual, it's a bit bumpy because you're trying to create a constant rhyme. Either work on the choice of words or loosen the rhyming scheme, otherwise it's still on par with your others :-)

A guy asked me if my GF is "tight", if you know what I mean? But she still insists on him being a nice guy?

what an @sshole, all you can do though buddy is just sit and grind your teeth, show no response and wait till he trips himself up. wouldn't blame you if you did punch his lights out but your right not too! good luck

Think I screwed up with this girl out, what should I do? A woman's help would be great?

So this is pretty much how it started. I met a girl with a bunch of my friends that when I took one look at her I pretty much said wow. We were all getting to know her for hours because she came over to sit with us. Every time me and her talked we would look at each other and smile. I did things to make her laugh because I'm something of a comedian around women. I'm also socially awkward try not to be but its tough. Afterwards we talked non stop over the phone or through instant messenger and we really got to know each other. I was amazed because this was like the female version of me. Just the bad thing is is that we both got badly hurt in the past and it made us act sort of awkward around eachother. The first time we hung out we were still in that awkward phase until both of us had a few drinks. I'm very outgoing and I can relax more when I've had a few, but hey who isn't when they are tipsy. We spent the remainder of the night on a couch talking about anything and everything. We were both holding eachother and between conversation we would kiss. I'm also very good at flirting when I'm drunk, when I'm sober not so much.We fell asleep in eachothers arms and it was something I really needed after being hurt. We spent the next day at her house just walking around and getting to know eachother some more. This is were I made mistake number one is because I wanted to just get to know her that day because I didnt just want her to be a hook up. There was hints that she wanted me to kiss her again just I didnt follow through with them. She said she appreciated that and said not too many guys have that kind of respect for her. We did hold and kiss eachother at the end of the night though when we were saying goodbye. Everytime we hung out afterwards it would switch between her making the first move or me doing it this went on for about 2 weeks. We started calling eachother by nicknames like hun and babe and I was finally starting to get comfortable around her. Everytime we weren't with eachother she would tell me how much she missed me and would always want to see me as soon as possible. Now this is the part where dumbass me screws up. 1. I lied to her when we getting to know eachother. Told her that I had a job when I really didnt and that I had a working vehicle. I would of rather lied than looked like a complete 21 year old loser. I think she found out about the lies.( I have a job now, one that pays pretty good) Not being honest about it most likely made her not trust me as much. 2. I started to kind of become clingy, couldn't help it because I didn't want to lose her. 3. Still acted awkward around her and would be quiet at times. Think I sent mixed signals alot. 4. I told her I liked her and this is what I think freaked her out is because it might have been too early to say it. I royally ****** up when we went to another party at her house because it seemed like I was replaced. She would disappear with this guy for 4-5 minutes throughout the night and she was all touchy feely with the guy. When he wasn't around she would come right back to me acting all sweet. I was an asshole to him all night. I made him feel like complete crap and would belittle him every chance I got. All of her friends thinks shes crazy for choosing him over me. All this guy is is white trash with money. Found out he's a complete douche bag too and has a girlfriend. I got drunk off my *** and pretty much every girl there made out with me.( Not to sound like a narcissist, but I get alot that I'm a very good looking guy, just I don't believe it) I dress nice and try to look my best too so every girl there noticed me I guess. My dumb *** buddy gets drunk and starts telling her that she should take me upstairs and sleep with me. I'm not that kind of guy, I have class and I won't take advantage of a woman. I only made out with these girls because I was hurt and wanted to get back at her. Her and dumb-*** went upstairs to go to sleep and I get a text saying nothing is going to happen its just shes really confused lately and that she does like me too. She said she wanted to find what made her happy because she isn't satisfied with her life. She's scared to be with me because she thinks I'm going to hurt her. I just dont want her to get hurt by numbnuts . Ever since then I have to start the conversations and she will keep them short. When we see eachother it has to be around friends and she flirts with all of my friends in front of me now. Shes still hanging out with that dirt bag from the party and its obvious they are hooking up. I've been ignoring her and it doesn't seem to work. She won't talk to me unless I call/text and she'll say shes with him but will still talk to me. I'm not making myself as available to her anymore and I'll blow her off. From a woman's perspective, what should I do to at least have her like me again. I feel like I

Do you agree with this description of Andrea Dworkin?

No. She single-handedly managed to damage the reputation of feminists more than any anti-feminist or MRA could have dreamed of doing. Her statements of ignorance and hatred will be used as reasons to dislike feminism for years to come. Hmmmp, I suppose I should thank her........

Summer outfits?!!! Help!!!?

well im going to see this really cute guy today, and he likes me too. im not trying to impress him anymore, but come one. Who doesnt want to look good for there "guy". And its summer, about 80 degrees here with some clouds and mostly sunny! thanks to all

Outfit/hair/make-up help?

look the way you looked when he fist asked you out or you him. Just be yourself...no need to be frilly unless its like a five start resturaunt.

My brother has adhd how am i meant to cope?

On monday, my 6 year old brother got diagnosed with ADHD, we have known he has had it since he was about 4 but they wouldn't test him until saw my sister on her 3 year heck up, they asked mother where she got her black eye and bruised back from, she said, joshua (my brother) every day i am called every swear word under the sun by him, i'm hit, kicked, slapped, punched and bitten, today he urinatied over my other brother, which is a step too far for me, so i went down stairs and got really angry with my mum about it, and she started crying and said if i really hated it that much here then i should move out, i feel really bad now and can't stand it making her feel like this, but i don't know what do , i just don't understand adhd well enough, this subject is reall upsetting me at the moment and i don't know what to do i just don't find it fair that it is never his fault but mine if he hits me even though i do nothing to provoke it, this won't help to not dissipline him for doing something wrong or when he gets older he wont understand that he can't do bad things an get away with it........ please i need advice, can anybody help?????????? thankx alot becki (14)

I think I'm a Narcissist?

Is anyone actually trying to help this guy with his concern? I share the same "problem" I am curious if you are a leo. I dont think I am better than everyone. I just want to be noticed. I want people to know how cool I am because I am cool. I am awesome and I am sure you are too. But you are also self concious. You need validation so you know that you are not delusional. I bet you are a great guy and people see that. I have been working on not needing others approval. Its tough. But love yourself. He is the one you have to live with the rest of your life. :)

How do i stay calm when it feels like I'm under an attack by a Pregnant woman?

My perfect older sister who went to Europe and an out of state for college with a huge refund check and no left over expense to pay, no loans, got knocked up and is now living at home in a not so perfect house. However I am glad to say that she graduate with a bachelors in time at her graduation 5 months pregnant. I am 20 years old, i just transfer from a university to a community college near home and I am in transition to go to UT Austin. In the mean time I live at home but am looking for housing. I am going to get me an apartment so that I can get back into the study zone because I am lazy if i decide to stay at home and it would drive me crazy to stay in the house with a crying baby 24/7 plus schools, studies, and a job. I would never get any rest what so ever. My prego sister is going through a pregnancy b**** stage where she attacks everyone in the house, rearranging their lives for her benefit her own self. And she's mean, she keeps believing that she can get an apartment with only 1,000 to make it own and take care of her baby by herself but I can't. She claim the only reason why i don't get my own apartment is because i need someone to watch my kid while i'm gone. Yet she says to me realistically your never going to be accepted to UT austin, your not going to have a job, and your not going to get into any type of apartment. On top of that she keeps saying other ugly and hurtful things to that are below the belt and is very provoking to me but I am force to take it because I will NEVER hit a pregnant woman. She fights unfair but what am I suppose to do? Say, hey your pregnant self have no chance in getting your Master's? Or hey if you don't want to have to live in the same room as me with your baby then you should have wore a condom? Or hey i hope your baby don't look as ugly as the way you act. What can i do in the main time to avoid being around her. I don't want to even be in the same room with her yet we live in the same room at our parents house. I am going to move out whether she believe so or not but what can i do in the mean time.